I asked for the time once more in the coffee shop. I chickened out on 1 set but then asked another one in a totally cool manner. I will continure this. Later on I tried using my Hi method which is to get into the friendly drunk guy state. I managed to do it. I felt really stoned, I gave a shit about everything but that didn't make me approach. Actually nothing did it. I pondered about this and I realized I don't have any good reason to approach. It was a revelation. And then I thought that 'a guy that does approaches' is just not me. If something is not me it needs effort. If it is me, I can do it just like that. So in order to approach girls constantly I need to develop myself into that kind of guy. It is time consuming and it is possible. I
proved it by changing myself to this point. So I will continue using my imagination for this. I read in "Think and grow rich" about the Invisible Councellors. I will use this idea in my nightly meditation. They will include people like David DeAngelo, Mystery, Style, PJE. Of course this isn't anything new, if I recall that's what I've been doing during the last year.
These people come into my mind all the time. But I will now focus on this in a habit. I think this is the best way for change.
From shy guy to don juan. Daily experiences.
"The secret of happiness is freedom. And the secret of freedom is courage."
