Polarity

When problems occur. Lack of attraction. I'm in a lower state. There is a tendency to blame it on her. She thinks/does/dont not something to me. This is wrong.

It is never about me.

It is about her fear and me losing my masculinity. She has a deep fear of losing me. Both physically and masculine-wise. That is when she is confused, starts acting bitchy, or simply dull.

Throw her around.

Fuck her whenever you must. Take her. You don't punish her by refusing sex. You punish her by spanking while having sex. You own her. She is the mother of your child.

What does a king do?

He takes care of his women. He must do that by understanding her. It's not about fixing her problems and issues. Do that for yourself. In order to be a healthy well-aligned alpha male you must work on your own well-being. Do what you like. Do what gives you pleasure. Follow your passion. Don't explain yourself. Dwell into what gives life joy. Only from that position of spontaneous happiness can you lead her.

From this position you have power to truly understand her. Not blaming her on something. She will never know. She isn't as smart as you. She does not understand polarity. She will just be confused when something is wrong. Protect and lead her. OWN HER. You own her because she is the mother of your child. She is a vehicle for that. You never are angry. You are compassionate, that is the only way you can change the state.

There is no equal relationship.

Monogamity comes from a state of mind where you are tied to her. You are not, you own her. She is one of the mothers of your offspring. Treat her like that.

Attraction happens naturally in a polarized relationship. When you act as a man and she as a woman. She will act as a woman when you act as a man. Focus on being a man. This is your world. Act in it with your heart. Be selfish. Don't think but act on your hearts desires. Lead her with you. She has no choice. She doesn't have any clue about anything. She may offer you advice based on her intuition and you thank her for that. Thank her for being sexy, girly, looking good. Thank her for being a woman.