corvette:
Congrats, you got to the point where you can handle the frame: "I can do no wrong".
You know what is the next step?
"Everything I do is gold".
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dont seek evasive actions - it is motivatio by fear - go towards your desire
CONNECT WITH YOUR DESIRE
ACCEPT IT
THERE IS NO MORE POWERFUL TECHNIQUE
You dont do anything! No conscious control! To do something..,...
you must really want it.
That means the wasnting must be there. If it is, ok. Now connect with it, ALLOW IT. Only when it comes out, you will feel it in your heart, guts and it will MOVE you spontaneosuly. THINGFS WILL HAPPEN. It moves you.
To get to that point you mut allow all your fears.
MY latest fear: cant show my desires, cant let anyone know about them. Once I'm ok with it letting go, everything happens. Before I'm just thinking mental concept how to overcome it. It is lies. It is lying to you. It may seem it is not, it is helping you, there is a solution, you just NEED to do it, SHOULD do it. Those are all mental blocks hiding your fear. Accept it and allow desire to spring out, it will move you.
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Tryin to please her is not sexy.
It's never about me.
Leadership is following your desire.
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Negative thoughts are your enemy! They are not you!!
You spend time on thisearth waking up that's when you live. The rest are distractions designed to fool you. FIGHT THEM
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Owning the woman
DEIDA:
Through lack of understanding, you might have depolarized yourself and your partner into a relationship that seems neutral, but actually isn't.
For such a woman, there is no disconnection between sex and spririt. Her sexual surrender, if she is with a worthy man, is the same as her devotional or spiritual surrender. She opens from head to toe, receiving divine love-force deep thoughout her body, so that she is rippled, arched, and undulated by its boundless flow.
The more you seek a woman who gives you everything, the less you get of anything.
choose a single priority to the relationship and allow all the other activities to align themselves around your main purpose for being together.
to serve one another's enlightenment through your unwavering commitment to love, and to enliven one another's core by the bodily transmission of love via sexual polarity.
liberate yourself and others into love and freedom
When you find yourself really enlivened by a young woman, breathe in her fragrance. Breathe in her energy. Realx your body and allow your heart to open in her presence. Take in her beauty through every pore in your body. Allow love to radiate from your heart toward her. Maintain a respectful formality so that she is free and empowered to give her gift, without being complicated by your personal agenda. Use the energy she has given you in your own service to others, passing the gifts of heightened aliveness and passionate heart into all of your relationships, so that all beings may benefit by the delight you have recieved from this woman, who, for now, mainifests the youthful gifts of uncompromised radiance and life force.
Her ultimate desire is to feel your full consciousness, your trustable integrity, your unshakable love, and your confidence in your mission.
The divine masculine is consciousness. A superior man practices maintaing full consciousness in all situations.
Saturday, June 20, 2009
Sunday, March 01, 2009
decision and other
COSY:
So perhaps you should not be asking "what/how/why/wtf?", and instead should just have a look at what kind of behavior would affect things like a cat, or an animal.
What is instinctive to them.
THE ROCK
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while for the more qualified simultaneous
creation is taught, that is, that this world arose like a dream on account of one’s own thoughts
induced by the defect of not knowing oneself as the Self.
The enquiry
“Who am I?” is the principal means to the removal of all misery and the attainment of the supreme
bliss.
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Subject: Re: DTI: The Natural Process Of The Mind And Growth
GRAND SUMMARY:
GUIDED DISTRACTION SUMMARY:
- Focus, and immerse in something that will inherently help develop what you are after
ARGUEMENT SUMMARY:
- Change focus to something constructive, aggressively if need be
LEADERSHIP SUMMARY:
- More sexual/primal drives are more readily adopted as opposed to intellectual/conscious drives.
- If you filter information, you gain a double whammy effect
a) Increased believability
b) Increased aesthetic quality
Resulting in increased positive AFFECT on those around you.
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The question is not HOW but rather WHY NOT?
Why do you have to use the teqnique. Why do you have to consciously remember it. Why do you have to control it. Think about it. Use it. Do it. Why doesn't it JUST HAPPEN?
Find the cause of why aren't you doing it right now.
Are you having sex right now? Why not? Because I'm not... Who aren't you?
Who must you become to be having sex right now? I must become an ALPHA MALE.
That is the answer. You are not an alpha male. Now, today. But...
You can be one, even in 10 seconds if you want to.
Unless you don't want it. This is important - it won't work if you really don't want it. That is the only reason of it not working. So work out what is preventing you from wanting it...
How do you become - someone - you aren't right now?
What makes you, who you are today, now?
Is it your body, your possesions, your parents, your friends, your khaki? Are YOU something fixed, defined, contained in an object? Or is YOU something more ephemeric, fluid and sponteaneous?
It is rather something that is not created and IS. But something that is in the making. It is being created every moment, every second each day. It is being created, sculpted, by the DECISIONS you make every moment.
You can change WHO you are RIGHT NOW, by changing a decision you are going to make.
If you have a situation right now, where an important decision is to be made. And you know what you do every time something like this happens. STOP. Consider this for a moment:
The decision you are about to make is going to sculpt you.
The decision is not whether you will to wear khaki or not. The khaki does not define you. What defines you is the decision you made whether to wear khaki or not. That is what created you.
Let me repeat - What defines you is THE DECISION you made whether to wear khaki or not. NOT the khaki.
So if you have a situation and you can decide whether you wimp out or go for it. Remember that considering the pros and cons will do nothing. It doesn't even matter what is the 'right' decision. It's not about that. It doesn't matter if you lose or win. What matters is:
Who will you be after making that decision?
Will you be a man or will you be a wimp.
The choice is for you to be made.
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I see that too many here are afraid of ebetaization. It is just a secret way of fearing rejection. Don't worry about it. Thinking about not being betaized is paranoia installed by this board. I want to make one post here that isn't about attempting to escape it but a post about what to focus on, so that betaization is not a problem and won't lead to anything shitty.
The number 3 rules. Since this is an advanced board I suppose you know how to do it.
1. Just be attractive to other women. If she sees other women adore you, she will be attracted to you forever. It's as simple as that. If she sees other women pity and despise you, guess what? Your value for her is also zero. You are not her special man. She is a woman, she does not think by herself, her only measure is the measure of her girlfriends and women around you that she sees.
2. Make absolutely NOTHING dependant on her. If there is at least one thing that you can't do for yourself or with somebody else then you have failed.
If she washes your underpants because you don't know how, learn how to do it yourself.
If she is your only source of sex, know that you can have other women quickly, or find something better to do than sex. It is also sufficient to not need to fuck anybody.
She is your only way of spending free time? Get a hobby.
She is the only person you can share your secrets with? Find a friend.
She is the only person that truly loves you? Learn to love yourself.
You can get my point easily if you ask yourself this question:
How would you live on if she left you this very second?
If you would just continue playing your piano, feeding hungry puppies, enjoying a good movie - or something in that manner you have succeeded.
Basically all the stuff you use for battling ONEITIS (I recommend the recent stuff by CostOfSuccess)
In one sentence, the secret of being happy in a relationship:
Learn to be happy on your own.
It is the single most attractive human component. Independent happines.
Change your focus from her - to improving yourself.
So perhaps you should not be asking "what/how/why/wtf?", and instead should just have a look at what kind of behavior would affect things like a cat, or an animal.
What is instinctive to them.
THE ROCK
------------------------------------
while for the more qualified simultaneous
creation is taught, that is, that this world arose like a dream on account of one’s own thoughts
induced by the defect of not knowing oneself as the Self.
The enquiry
“Who am I?” is the principal means to the removal of all misery and the attainment of the supreme
bliss.
------------------------------------
Subject: Re: DTI: The Natural Process Of The Mind And Growth
GRAND SUMMARY:
GUIDED DISTRACTION SUMMARY:
- Focus, and immerse in something that will inherently help develop what you are after
ARGUEMENT SUMMARY:
- Change focus to something constructive, aggressively if need be
LEADERSHIP SUMMARY:
- More sexual/primal drives are more readily adopted as opposed to intellectual/conscious drives.
- If you filter information, you gain a double whammy effect
a) Increased believability
b) Increased aesthetic quality
Resulting in increased positive AFFECT on those around you.
--------------------------
The question is not HOW but rather WHY NOT?
Why do you have to use the teqnique. Why do you have to consciously remember it. Why do you have to control it. Think about it. Use it. Do it. Why doesn't it JUST HAPPEN?
Find the cause of why aren't you doing it right now.
Are you having sex right now? Why not? Because I'm not... Who aren't you?
Who must you become to be having sex right now? I must become an ALPHA MALE.
That is the answer. You are not an alpha male. Now, today. But...
You can be one, even in 10 seconds if you want to.
Unless you don't want it. This is important - it won't work if you really don't want it. That is the only reason of it not working. So work out what is preventing you from wanting it...
How do you become - someone - you aren't right now?
What makes you, who you are today, now?
Is it your body, your possesions, your parents, your friends, your khaki? Are YOU something fixed, defined, contained in an object? Or is YOU something more ephemeric, fluid and sponteaneous?
It is rather something that is not created and IS. But something that is in the making. It is being created every moment, every second each day. It is being created, sculpted, by the DECISIONS you make every moment.
You can change WHO you are RIGHT NOW, by changing a decision you are going to make.
If you have a situation right now, where an important decision is to be made. And you know what you do every time something like this happens. STOP. Consider this for a moment:
The decision you are about to make is going to sculpt you.
The decision is not whether you will to wear khaki or not. The khaki does not define you. What defines you is the decision you made whether to wear khaki or not. That is what created you.
Let me repeat - What defines you is THE DECISION you made whether to wear khaki or not. NOT the khaki.
So if you have a situation and you can decide whether you wimp out or go for it. Remember that considering the pros and cons will do nothing. It doesn't even matter what is the 'right' decision. It's not about that. It doesn't matter if you lose or win. What matters is:
Who will you be after making that decision?
Will you be a man or will you be a wimp.
The choice is for you to be made.
----------------------------------------------------------
I see that too many here are afraid of ebetaization. It is just a secret way of fearing rejection. Don't worry about it. Thinking about not being betaized is paranoia installed by this board. I want to make one post here that isn't about attempting to escape it but a post about what to focus on, so that betaization is not a problem and won't lead to anything shitty.
The number 3 rules. Since this is an advanced board I suppose you know how to do it.
1. Just be attractive to other women. If she sees other women adore you, she will be attracted to you forever. It's as simple as that. If she sees other women pity and despise you, guess what? Your value for her is also zero. You are not her special man. She is a woman, she does not think by herself, her only measure is the measure of her girlfriends and women around you that she sees.
2. Make absolutely NOTHING dependant on her. If there is at least one thing that you can't do for yourself or with somebody else then you have failed.
If she washes your underpants because you don't know how, learn how to do it yourself.
If she is your only source of sex, know that you can have other women quickly, or find something better to do than sex. It is also sufficient to not need to fuck anybody.
She is your only way of spending free time? Get a hobby.
She is the only person you can share your secrets with? Find a friend.
She is the only person that truly loves you? Learn to love yourself.
You can get my point easily if you ask yourself this question:
How would you live on if she left you this very second?
If you would just continue playing your piano, feeding hungry puppies, enjoying a good movie - or something in that manner you have succeeded.
Basically all the stuff you use for battling ONEITIS (I recommend the recent stuff by CostOfSuccess)
In one sentence, the secret of being happy in a relationship:
Learn to be happy on your own.
It is the single most attractive human component. Independent happines.
Change your focus from her - to improving yourself.
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