Fuck, so simple:
Men and women want sex the same amount. It's that men think to pursue the sex, and
women think to be pursued. But the sex is always there.
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I'm watching Marlond Brando lately and really focusing on the POTENTIAL.
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I'm reading my posts from a year ago.
I decided then to go indirect, to control people. Now I see it was insecurity.
When I lost that I became honest, like now.
"To do this succesfully you must find a reason to make eye contact besides making
eye contact! Don't ever think about making eye contact! So how?
What you do is get yourself into the state of... WONDER. This is the state that
you were in as a child. Before you got any concepts in your head. Before there was
a spearation between you and other people. Before you knew that eyes look at you.
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That is exactly, the POTENTIAL.
Stanislavsky question: “What would I do if I were…”
"You don't have direct control over your state but you have control over yourself!!!"
Tuesday, November 27, 2007
Sunday, November 25, 2007
You aren't your khaki
Oh my god I got it! Deep knowing in opposite of intelectual knowing of something is the end of searching for an answer.
If you know something intelectually but are not feeling, you are still unsure of, even though you "know" it.
The after emotion after releasing is still it. It needs to feel good and energy refreshed if it went well.
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Just know that she has already made up her mind.
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Once the body has decided to approach then YOU must do it. This is where you must stop all thinking because any more thoughts are just coming closer to failure. Just do it. You know how.
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TYLER:
"Who are you??
The answer isn't found in what you DO.
You aren't your job. You aren't the contents of your wallet. You aren't your fucking khakis.
The point is that you have a dynamic and uncategorizable nature and relationship with the world.
Anything is possible. You are infinite and unlimited in potentiality.
An authentic relationship to your existence is one that is "grounded and humble and at ease with the unknown".
That's where REAL and DEEP confidence arises from."
Meditate on. This is true power.
The bad days and also the second day syndrome come from focusing on the wrong thing. They come from focusing on what WAS, on the BELIEFS that had formed previously and on EXPECTATION. Stop them immeditaly and remember what was prior to a great day.
It was probably focusing on this unlimited force and POTENTIAL right in front of you.
FOCUS ON THE POTENTIAL.
Mode ONE:
"Your level of self-confidence, and your ego, are not the same thing. Self-confidence has to do with your desire and ability to take action towards the achievement of a desired goal or objective. Your ego centers on how you perceive yourself, and how you believe you’re being perceived by others."
Differentiate yourself from the compliments and criticisms, you are just the POTENTIAL, nothing else. In that way you always are the same.
Mode ONE:
"Two of the most effective psychological tools that people use in order to manipulate others are compliments and criticisms. More specifically, they use insincere flattery and subjective criticisms."
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You can't change an attitude by forcing and remembering the frame. The frame comes from a belief and understanding. What does the person know and believe in, what does he feel?
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Talk to the person, not to the programming. Notice that it is a social bullshit layer. And you can cut through it, and you are actually doing good to the person.
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If you know something intelectually but are not feeling, you are still unsure of, even though you "know" it.
The after emotion after releasing is still it. It needs to feel good and energy refreshed if it went well.
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Just know that she has already made up her mind.
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Once the body has decided to approach then YOU must do it. This is where you must stop all thinking because any more thoughts are just coming closer to failure. Just do it. You know how.
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TYLER:
"Who are you??
The answer isn't found in what you DO.
You aren't your job. You aren't the contents of your wallet. You aren't your fucking khakis.
The point is that you have a dynamic and uncategorizable nature and relationship with the world.
Anything is possible. You are infinite and unlimited in potentiality.
An authentic relationship to your existence is one that is "grounded and humble and at ease with the unknown".
That's where REAL and DEEP confidence arises from."
Meditate on. This is true power.
The bad days and also the second day syndrome come from focusing on the wrong thing. They come from focusing on what WAS, on the BELIEFS that had formed previously and on EXPECTATION. Stop them immeditaly and remember what was prior to a great day.
It was probably focusing on this unlimited force and POTENTIAL right in front of you.
FOCUS ON THE POTENTIAL.
Mode ONE:
"Your level of self-confidence, and your ego, are not the same thing. Self-confidence has to do with your desire and ability to take action towards the achievement of a desired goal or objective. Your ego centers on how you perceive yourself, and how you believe you’re being perceived by others."
Differentiate yourself from the compliments and criticisms, you are just the POTENTIAL, nothing else. In that way you always are the same.
Mode ONE:
"Two of the most effective psychological tools that people use in order to manipulate others are compliments and criticisms. More specifically, they use insincere flattery and subjective criticisms."
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You can't change an attitude by forcing and remembering the frame. The frame comes from a belief and understanding. What does the person know and believe in, what does he feel?
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Talk to the person, not to the programming. Notice that it is a social bullshit layer. And you can cut through it, and you are actually doing good to the person.
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Friday, November 16, 2007
You control it differently than what you believe
Ciaran : Shock and Awe
Mode One:
"“That is how I’ve always wanted a man … at least, one who I’m physically attracted to … to talk to me. But realistically, I would never expect most men to have the guts to … at least, not in their very first conversation with me…”"
"Jack literally has no fear whatsoever of opinionated insults or subjective criticisms directed at him by women. I mean, absolutely none. He has no fear of being rejected by women. I mean, absolutely none. He never attempts to lie to women in order to seduce them, and he never attempts to engage in “manipulative head games” in order to persuade the women into having sex with him. He is just very bold, self-confident, upfront and unapologetically straightforward, and he never behaves in an apologetic and/or defensive manner in response to harsh criticisms and insults of his behavior, or his raunchy, provocative manner of verbally expressing his sexual desires, interests, and intentions to women."
"Talk Dirty To Me, Part II
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I figured out how to wake up.It happened in a dream. I became lucid and was thinking if this was a dream or not. All evidence showed that it is reality. So I accepted it (although it was completebullshit as I see it now). I started to piss. It didnt go out so I wanted to really piss, really do it. That's when the dream switched to me holding a banana or something. I was conscious of this switch and rewinded and held to it. So to wake up dont seek for evidence that it is not a dream. Your mind will tell you it is. Do something that is out of the reality. When it can't happen that is when the reality will start changing to make that thing seem that it is doing. Notice that switch and you'll fly above it.
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There is no other option. Courage.
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The problem is - I am seeking from outside validation and guidance what to do/act/behave. It must come from me. Only from my core. Once that happens all seeking for pick up knowledge will drop.
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Start eye contact. Focus only on that, the rest is distractions. All flows from catching eye contact with a person.
Mode One:
"“That is how I’ve always wanted a man … at least, one who I’m physically attracted to … to talk to me. But realistically, I would never expect most men to have the guts to … at least, not in their very first conversation with me…”"
"Jack literally has no fear whatsoever of opinionated insults or subjective criticisms directed at him by women. I mean, absolutely none. He has no fear of being rejected by women. I mean, absolutely none. He never attempts to lie to women in order to seduce them, and he never attempts to engage in “manipulative head games” in order to persuade the women into having sex with him. He is just very bold, self-confident, upfront and unapologetically straightforward, and he never behaves in an apologetic and/or defensive manner in response to harsh criticisms and insults of his behavior, or his raunchy, provocative manner of verbally expressing his sexual desires, interests, and intentions to women."
"Talk Dirty To Me, Part II
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I figured out how to wake up.It happened in a dream. I became lucid and was thinking if this was a dream or not. All evidence showed that it is reality. So I accepted it (although it was completebullshit as I see it now). I started to piss. It didnt go out so I wanted to really piss, really do it. That's when the dream switched to me holding a banana or something. I was conscious of this switch and rewinded and held to it. So to wake up dont seek for evidence that it is not a dream. Your mind will tell you it is. Do something that is out of the reality. When it can't happen that is when the reality will start changing to make that thing seem that it is doing. Notice that switch and you'll fly above it.
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There is no other option. Courage.
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The problem is - I am seeking from outside validation and guidance what to do/act/behave. It must come from me. Only from my core. Once that happens all seeking for pick up knowledge will drop.
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Start eye contact. Focus only on that, the rest is distractions. All flows from catching eye contact with a person.
Friday, November 09, 2007
the Sweet Spot
Something mind raping was happening last time I went for a walk in the city. EVERY woman could not control looking at me and being attracted. I dont think I looked that good, I did not focus on my BL or anything. What I did was focusing on the Pull in front of me. Asking what it wants. Feeling the heart. Being a follower of it. It is an animal-like state.
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I think I got it?
There are 3 modes of focus.
- Front of yourself - "the sweet spot" - this is following your wanting
- Center - "the I am" - this is where you know your centre or core of your being, who you are
- Back - "the Reciever" - this changes your BL to recieve from other people what they can give you
1 mode of laziness - or no focus. You just consider everything unimportant.
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Shyness- why in the hell would you even consider that feeling? Just know that it fucks you up and let it pass. If needed stop for a moment and wait for it to go.
AT EVERY MOMENT YOU HAVE THE POWER TO NOT CONSIDER ANY FEELING OR REASON YOUR MIND COMES UP WITH.
Just as you have the power to not follow your wanting, you can choose not to follow a mind obstacle. It's important to learn different emotions. For example nervousness in the stomach is just an expectation of something big coming. But a really bad feeling there might be a sign that something is terribly wrong.
Friday, November 02, 2007
It's just not an option
lET THE WORD FLOW. i THINK THIS IS THE MOST POWERFUL TECHNIQUE FOR WORKING YOUR AWARENESS YET.wHEN YOY ARE TALKING, WAIT FOR THE WORDS TO FORM IN YOUR FEELING, IN YOUR MUSCLES MEMORY. lET THE PREDICTION FORMULATE, THEN JUST FOLLOW IT AND LET IT SAY. sAY IT ONLY WHEN IT IS READY. dONT DO ANYTHING. lET IT FLOW. bECOME A FOLLOWER OF YOUR WANTINGS.i WANT TO EXPERIENCE THIS MORE. i SEE IT HAS TO DO WITH EVERYTHING YOU DO IN CONSCIOUSNESS. i'LL EXPERIMENT MORE.
Look into the left eye of the person. Look at the I Am.
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Every waking moment of your life move towards the pleasure and release any feeling obstacles that prevent you from reaching it.
In 3 years I want to have the social life of a rock-star. In the meantime I have to prepare myself internally so that when it happens I don't pass on opportunities. I am OK with that happening at that age.
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To PUA's: how did YOU decide to approach no matter what?
Once the need to get laid overpowers the fear of the risk of rejection you have to approach.
one day youll snap and approach the next attractive girl youll see
I got to a point where I was real pissed off and thinking about this.
Things changed for me after a public relations job I had one summer at a super popular beach restaraunt. Now when I sarge a random chick, I just choose to click into this P.R. mentality.
Another thing that really clicked for me is embracing the perspective that "I'm everyone." It took all the fear out of talking to people.It comes down to just dropping your mind, and finding a good perspective that you'll be able to enjoy the experience with.
Initially it came from a sense of the absolute need in my miind to turn my life around as far as women go.
Ask yourself next time....."What's going to happen if you DON'T speak with her?".
---- ITS NOT AN OPTION ! (?)
Stop over-analyzing and take it as if its a huge game
I approach because I know that if I don't approach, than I will feel like a pvssy and regret it later on in life.
Look into the left eye of the person. Look at the I Am.
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Every waking moment of your life move towards the pleasure and release any feeling obstacles that prevent you from reaching it.
In 3 years I want to have the social life of a rock-star. In the meantime I have to prepare myself internally so that when it happens I don't pass on opportunities. I am OK with that happening at that age.
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To PUA's: how did YOU decide to approach no matter what?
Once the need to get laid overpowers the fear of the risk of rejection you have to approach.
one day youll snap and approach the next attractive girl youll see
I got to a point where I was real pissed off and thinking about this.
Things changed for me after a public relations job I had one summer at a super popular beach restaraunt. Now when I sarge a random chick, I just choose to click into this P.R. mentality.
Another thing that really clicked for me is embracing the perspective that "I'm everyone." It took all the fear out of talking to people.It comes down to just dropping your mind, and finding a good perspective that you'll be able to enjoy the experience with.
Initially it came from a sense of the absolute need in my miind to turn my life around as far as women go.
Ask yourself next time....."What's going to happen if you DON'T speak with her?".
---- ITS NOT AN OPTION ! (?)
Stop over-analyzing and take it as if its a huge game
I approach because I know that if I don't approach, than I will feel like a pvssy and regret it later on in life.
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