From shy guy to don juan. Daily experiences.
"The secret of happiness is freedom. And the secret of freedom is courage."

Thursday, July 31, 2008

...Since April...

A LOT to write. But I need to start writing again, so lets begin with the most recent.

Re-establish yourself as the domineer.

This means that all esteem and horniness problems with girls come from acting to pleasure HER. This is totally against nature because she needs a man that can dominate and penetrate her for his own pleasure. This is the code. If you try to fake it, you get problems. Become the dominant one. Really think about what you want. And then don't fake it by acting like you're the dominant one using the lines thought in the dominant frame. You must feel it in the entire body. The testoreone. The knowing exactly what you want and then stating it. Without reaction seeking, just saying it and going for it. I am king.

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All is good until she says something. I believe I'm faking it?



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Are you a guy that does it because of some reason (that it will attract her) or do you do it because that is you?
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LOVE MYSELF

SURRENDER

Feeling bad about yourself is a domestication mind construct. You can let go of it anytime. Just remember that it is an illusion. Then find pleasure in the moment. This is love. Accept all of yourself. Let go of all your needs.
Let go, never force. If force arises, switch focus to it and let go, love, feel pleasure.

LET GO - from what is preventing you and then follow the PLEASURE
instead of trying to do it


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GROUP THINK

Tyler D

"Well if you're noticing this in yourself, it's probably because you've been drawing your confidence from a "well" of group-think.

If more people accepted your way of thinking then the "I want people to agree with me" psychological mechanism up in your head would be happier with you."

"The bottom line is this: if you THINK what you're saying to a woman will "work" then it PROBABLY WILL."


http://naturaltim.com/?p=32 ODD






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Love yourself. 

Getting out of your head.

Remove attention from thouths and focus on the visual. See directly waht is there. You should feel a move in tension of the eyes. Relax there.

Like yourself, and know that everyone likes you. No rationalzying, it just is like that.


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Alex:

"To be yin, a woman must be strong enough to let go and completely follow the man’s lead."