Being in the moment

10 days ago I went to a club and did nothing.

Now I'm back after a trip and did everything right. This is some time I will remember so I'm not gonna write a lot.
I got my first grind, cuddling, kissing, holding etc. Of course it was nothing once I got it, the whole process was simply a blast. The tactics between me and this girl were incredible. Once we saw each other I knew it was on. I didn't really do anything until she started attracting me. The best way to get the girl is to let her chase you. I implemented Tao of Steve with profound accuracy. It was incredible how this stuff works. The only problem I had was my own psychology.
I discovered the 2 day cycle, which means that one day I am hyper-productive and accomplish my goals and the next day I really do crap and feel needy. PJE has a solution for this and I think I discovered the fix for this on my own. As always neediness is the enemy. I think if you could eliminate neediness there would be no problems in social life whatsoever. As for now it is very important to be in the moment and realize that you are the man and you control this life. From this mind set everything works. When I got a bad day I had to conciouscly refocus on this mindset. How can I have this mindset all the time?
I discovered I am the alpha-male. I can gain rapport with people within minutes or seconds. Everybody loved me. The problem is later on because I don't talk too much. This will be my goal for the next year probably, to become talkative.
I have proved the power of intention. However it is not what I thought it was and what all the self-help gurus talk about. It is exactly how PJE describes it in "Being the body". I imagined the girl that I wanted in a position I wanted her to be. I felt what it is like when she is kissing me. I made the decision, that yes this is what I want. I did this excerice once or twice a day and I got the result.
Also, I am nearly 100% sure that all action comes from learning by seeing others. Especially near, you. So the most important thing in life to do if you want to get girls is surround yourself with guys that get them. The other thing is fix your psychology.

There is a terrible disassociation between expecting something to happen and being in control and knowing what will happen because of you.

Oh and I did my first cold approach on an attractive waitress. It was a mess but I got the guts to do it thanks to all the confidence I got.

All this was done from a learning-frame. I didn't ever have high expectancies. But I doubt this can be a method, maybe the learning-frame is just something that happens in the right time.



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DYD Sex. com.

"How to argue and win everytime"

Demonstrate the power of knowing how to give pleasure. Don't ever try to get sth from her.
Never focus on the needs of the seller. Focus on the needs of the buyer!
Think about what they think of you!

"A person will only do something they've already seen themselves doing their mind FIRST"

Don't try to be liked!

All this happens automatically if you are just in the moment and feel what is happening.