Christian Carter:
Here are a few examples of the advice you'll
hear from the people around you:
- Act a little "bitchy" because men secretly like
it
- Go hang out where "good men" are likely to be
and you'll meet a great guy
- Be active, have fun and keep a busy and
interesting life of your own
- Don't act clingy or needy
- Don't expect to meet any good men in bars,
clubs, party places, etc.
- Meet men while doing things you like to do so
you have similar interests
- Let him initiate... wait for him to call you or
ask you out
- Play a little bit "hard to get"
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Juggler method forum:
APPROVAL REVERSE - Start giving approval
"So the thing you do when you talk is that you are approval giving instead of approval seeking. This comes down to that you don't need other people to like you. But you want other people to like you.
That's the key of skipping seeking approval. And instead start giving approval. Since you know that by giving approval people will like you. If the approval is genuine."
"The Alpha of the group is not the one doing all the talking, but the one everyone wants to talk to. Be approval giving not approval seeking. It makes sense that people will like you if you give approval! You just have to do it at the right time so they feel they deserve it.
There is less pressure on me because I don't have to talk more than anyone else in the group. I just need to reward and relate enough so people want to talk to me.
This is a great idea. I can't wait to put it into action!"
"For me being quiet isn't attached to your personality. The reason people are quiet is because they don't feel comfortable to express their personality. There values and their inner feelings. There view of seeing things.
The way to start being comfortable expressing your personality is by learning how to communicate and communication works."
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Why do people want me if I disqualify myself?
I have been great at this all my life.
From shy guy to don juan. Daily experiences.
"The secret of happiness is freedom. And the secret of freedom is courage."
