Mode One II

"We lie to avoid whatever we perceive as dangerous – to our ego,
to our comfort, to our safety."

“never allow yourself to want a woman ‘too badly’.”

"“Timids” are those Mode Three men who have NO BALLS. They have so little confidence in their social skills with women, and such a low degree of courage, that they very rarely, if ever, even attempt to approach a woman. “Timids” are DREADFULLY AFRAID of rejection."

"If you’re really interested in a short-term, casual sex relationship, you will “pretend” as though you’re interested in a long-term, serious romantic relationship. If you’re really interested in a romantic relationship, you will “pretend” as though you’re totally content with just a good, platonic friendship. Why? Because you’re afraid that whatever your interests are, they won’t be reciprocated."

"Scottish warrior William Wallace, was willing to die . . . DIE . . . rather than compromise his principles and values, or sacrifice his sense of dignity,"

"If you're a "Timid" ... take inventory of what you have to offer, and GROW SOME BALLS"


BEliefs that I need to stick to o matter what and who I meet:

ALL WOMEN WANT TO HAVE SEX WITH ME
IT IS MY RESPONSIBILITY TO ACT UPON THEIR DESIRES

Women don't want to be percieved as desperate and/or slutty in front of their friends. So as long as she believes you will keep it a secret, you will get casual sex.

Wholesome Pretenders:
Some women will pretend that you are ‘offending them,’ and ‘turning them off’ if you are exhibiting Mode One behaviour.

"How can you usually identify a Wholesome Pretender? Anytime you approach a woman, and express a desire to be physically romantic or sexual with them in a Mode One manner, they will typically become very dramatic and theatrical in their response. “Excuse me??!” “I don’t believe you just said that!!” “Do you talk like this to ALL women??!” “You are SO forward!!” These are all common responses from your average WP. A key characteristic of WP behavior is that they will usually subjectively criticize your manner of expression, but they will never make an [immediate] attempt to stop interacting with you. The reason being, is that WPs don’t criticize you because your behavior truly “turns them off,” but they criticize you in order to give you the [false] impression that they are a “lady,” and that “respectable ladies aren’t supposed to be talked to in an unapologetically straightforward manner” (but deep down, they’re aroused and/or intrigued by such behavior).

The biggest thing to remember about WPs is that they thoroughly enjoy sex . . . even very kinky, casual, highly promiscuous sex, . . . but they also want very badly to avoid being labeled as “sleazy” or a “ho.” They will do just about anything to maintain the image and reputation of an “innocent,” “wholesome,” marriageable woman."

"Wholesome Pretenders and Erotic Hypocrites DESPISE the effectiveness of Mode One Behavior. They despise Mode One Behavior because they know it has the potential to expose them for who they really are, and what they really want."

"THE FEAR OF BEING "PLAYER HATED."

I have to get rid of this feeling. It's the same feeling that makes me shy when wanting to perform or show my best self. This is the number #1 cause of my not becoming great. I have the power, I have the potential, I even have the skills. But I have fear of people being jealous and hence not liking me.



"Rejection is not only inevitable, but it is necessary."

"rejection is necessary and beneficial."

I must go out and get rejected.

"My belief is, anytime every woman who meets you has nothing but good, positive things to say about you, that means that nine times out of ten, you’re not really being your true self with every one of them. When you’re truly being yourself, there is always going to be at least one characteristic about you that women are going to find undesirable and/or frustrating to their egos."

The big secret:
"You Cannot Allow Your EGO
To Become Too Attached To
Receiving SPECIFIC Reactions
And Responses From Women."

This means any kind of reaction!

"When you’re being self-confident, and self-assured, the only thing on your mind is identifying a desirable goal or objective, and taking whatever action you need to in order to achieve that goal or objective.
It’s your ego that causes you to become concerned with other people’s perceptions of what you’re saying, how you’re saying it, and when you’re saying it. Your ego causes you to become obsessed with how people respond to you, and your behavior."

"Some men spend their entire adult life attempting to prevent and/or avoid a number of subjective criticisms, opinionated insults, and personal ‘labels,’ such as “immature jerk,” “shallow womanizer,” or “rude asshole.” These “labels” mean nothing. People use these criticisms and insults in an attempt to manipulate you into exhibiting behavior that is more pleasing, flattering, and accommodating to them. Don’t allow yourself to fall into the tiresome, misleading trap of trying to avoid critical “labels.”"

"ANYTIME YOU PLACE MORE VALUE AND SIGNIFICANCE ON THE ATTENTION and COMPANIONSHIP OF A WOMAN, THAN YOU DO YOUR OWN, YOUR BEHAVIOR IS GOING TO BE WEAK."

"NO WOMAN’S TIME, ATTENTION, OR COMPANIONSHIP IS MORE VALUABLE THAN YOUR OWN."

"Talking too much. When you engage in too much trivial, irrelevant small talk, over a period of time, women will begin to look at you as more of a platonic friend more so than a potential romantic companion or lover."

YOU CANNOT CHANGE A WOMANS BEHAVIOUR, YOU CAN ONLY CHANGE YOURS!

"When you exhibit Mode Two Behavior, you tend to put too much emphasis on being perceived as a “gentleman,” and having a woman “like” you, and say good things about you to their other female friends. It’s these objectives that ultimately weaken the effectiveness of your verbal communication style. In reality, women don’t date you, or choose to have sex with you, because you’re ‘nice’ to them, say all the ‘right things,’ and/or leave a ‘favorable impression’ on them. Just because a woman ‘likes’ you, and thinks highly of your personality and behavior, does not necessarily mean that she wants to date you, or sexually aroused by you."

"Very rarely have I developed a long-lasting romantic or sexual relationship with a woman as a direct result of exhibiting Mode Two Behavior. One reason, is because deep down, women know that you’re attempting to play up to their ego."


"“You're scared, right? The way it works is, you do the thing you're scared sh**less of, and you get the courage AFTER you do it, not before you do it.”"

"Confidence and courage is not representative of NOT HAVING ANY FEAR(S), but rather, it’s TAKING ACTION DESPITE HAVING FEARS.'

"Only concern yourself with your behavior TOWARDS WOMEN.
Don’t even think about, or anticipate, whether or not you’re going to receive a “positive” or “negative” response from women. Concentrate only on expressing your true needs, desires, interests, and intentions. Let the response take care of itself."

"WHEN YOU EXHIBIT TOTALLY NON-MANIPULATIVE BEHAVIOR TOWARDS WOMEN, YOU BASICALLY FORCE THEM TO EXHIBIT TOTALLY NON-MANIPULATIVE BEHAVIOR TOWARDS YOU. This is the key factor that makes Mode One Behavior so effective."

From a woman:
"[...]you want to know what really turns me on in a man? What I really think makes a man ‘sexy’?? It’s a man who DOESN’T REALLY CARE WHAT OTHER PEOPLE THINK OF HIM."

Technique: Hold the image of having sex with her the whole time. Especially when she is criticizing you or igonoring you. Those are just tests.

"Small Talk: Any conversation that you engage in with another that is usually trivial and meaningless, but to some degree, entertaining; The content of the conversation has nothing to do with your needs, desires, long-term intentions, or true interests."