This is what I'm thinking about lately. My thinking structure is changing, mainly because of "Mode One":
In order to get anything in life, you must be prepared to lose it.
The right way to get something is the way that involves risk.
Without risk you cannot gain anything.
Again... using bold letters...
TO GET ANYTHING IN LIFE, YOU MUST BE PREPARED TO LOSE IT.
THE ONLY WAY TO GET SOMETHING IS THE WAY THAT INVOLVES RISK.
WITHOUT RISK YOU CANNOT GAIN ANYTHING.
So... accept the fact that...
if you want to earn big money, you must be prepared to go broke.
if you want to start a conversation with a woman, you must be prepared to lose her.
if you want a kiss, you must be prepared to lose her.
if you want sex, you must be prepared to lose her.
if you want to get a woman you must be prepared to lose all women for the rest of your life.
NOTHING CAN BE GAINED WITHOUT RISK.
If there is a way of getting something for free, notice that your thinking is false and not BASED ON REALITY!
If there is no risk involved in your method. If there is no possibility of losing someone (a girl) or something in yourself (like self-esteem) then that way is false and won't get you nowhere.
I've nailed down the AFC thinking. Ha!
From shy guy to don juan. Daily experiences.
"The secret of happiness is freedom. And the secret of freedom is courage."
