Realize that the fear is wrong.
Maintain the right mind-frame at all times. You never know when serendipidity will happen and the only way to use it is to take action on it.
I have all day put myself in situations where a woman would come up next to me and I would strike a conversation. I rehearsed the lines and was very confident to use it. The whole day I didn't have a single occasion to use it. This method is very ineffective. I think it is a very powerful way to meet a woman but it must be applied for everyday life not for pick-up. So I have the lines in my head and I will use them through-out my life.
For approaching lots of people I need something else.
I'm going to do Thundercat's bootcamp. He wrote something very good: you must do 3 warm-up sets before you can do the real thing. What I did wrong during the past 2 weeks is that I did only the warm-up sets. Now I'm gonna do it Thundercat style.
I am not perfect. I need to learn everyday.
From shy guy to don juan. Daily experiences.
"The secret of happiness is freedom. And the secret of freedom is courage."
