Faith

Awareness Radius:
A low AR is the mark of a high status person. It's because he believes that what ever he is currently doing is THE BEST. A person with a high AR is always looking around. He is not fully engaged in conversation because he always feels like someone else is having more fun. He is scanning the room for people to suck value (energy) from.

Thing to do: Just walk around a crowdy place. Really slow and laid back. Whenever you see a girl that is near you look at her and smile and say Hi. If she ignores you give a crap about it, if she responds just make a normal conversation like you'd be always doing this.

Story telling (Juggler):
-Hi, how are you?
-Great, how are you?
-(Get into a story)
The story must not be interesting itself. You are the thing that is interesting in the story. Your personality, the way you express yourself. It is not that you don't have anything to talk about, it is that you have too much stuff to talk about. If you know what is your goal you will narrow down your choices and know exactly what to say.
To do: Train talking about mundane things in a passionate/funny way.
Remember when you are on a conversational high, it seems that the both of you are communicating with the same rhythm, like verses in a song. Try talking with rhythm in every conversation and check the results?

I stopped using self-depricating humour a while ago but I really didn't understand why. I can use it if it is a hidden neg, you are communicating that you don't want to get along with her. Like "-what do you do? -I'm a lumberjack". This fits my style more than cocky-funny.

Idea for making the next step after being cocky-funny for some time (like a mini romantic comedy): say "At first I thought you are really stuck up but know I really feel there's more to you...".

Wayne Dyer:
The opposite of fear is faith.
FEAR <-> FAITH
When you feel fear, believe that you will do it. You can pray to get strength.