Juggler

Juggler's tips:
If your look can intimidate (like being tall) you can tone down your alphaness very much. Also, talking with your hands can be intimidating if you have large arms. Keep your hands at waist level.
Enter a venue LOOKING FOR OPENERS rather than looking for targets. To look for creative pretenses to talk to anyone. Kids, UG's, dudes, old people, families. Whoever.
Statements make the strongest openers. "I like..." for example is something he uses.
No "hen-pecking". Another example that you should lead with your hips, in all situations! Juggler views physical closeness itself as actually more important than kino.
In conversation make statements. A statement provides value, a question asks the other person to provide value. Questions are asked only like you would ask someone you knew for years or playful questions.

I've got to try this out. For the past couple of years I've been focusing on questions in my conversation, now I have this mastered. So starting tomorrow I will focus on statements.

You should never feel responsible for her reaction.
Very important realization: THERE CAN BE LULLS IN CONVERSATION!
God this is so simple! Why didn't I think about this earlier -> if you don't know what to say in mid conversation just make a statement "I like..."/"I don't like". Millions of things come to be said after that.
Never make advancments on low points of a conversation, get to a higher level by creating value with statements.
If you are worried about your nervousness coming out, get physically tired and then try to speak as smoothly as possible (like train an opener: "This club was built on an indian burial ground").