From shy guy to don juan. Daily experiences.
"The secret of happiness is freedom. And the secret of freedom is courage."

Saturday, February 04, 2006

More theory

Never too much knowledge!

DD Tyler C. Interview:
Frame of you are the prize. Position yourself in a position where you are interviewing her and checking if she's good for you. Project that through words and especially body language. Isn't this what flirting is all about? It is a playful method of selecting sexual partners. I definitly have to apply this frame in everyday life since I know what it is about and I've seen people doing it.

RKTek - A Few Things I've Learned
Do not pursue women, never. That does not mean you can't sarge. Arrange 2 dates, with kiss-close on second. The rest is up to her. Stay emotionally equal all the time.
"- Most men in today’s world, are chumps. Hollywood movies, literature, art, the media, all will be working against you. If you do it correctly, your friends will call you a woman hater or that you’re too demanding. If you break it off with a woman because she’s a self-centered b*tch, but she looks like Kylie Minogue, they’ll say you’re nuts. If you do it correctly women will initially seem to scorn you. But if you do it correctly, women will have a little voice inside that piques their curiosity and find you irresistible in spite of themselves, and they’ll pursue, but they’ll also test you relentlessly to see if yours is just an act. If you do it right, you’ll find yourself doing things your way and seeming to swim against the popular culture and current."
Insecure men date beatiful women. Complete-centered men date women they like and are liked by.
At all times, a woman must believe that you can walk away from the relationship and not look back.
Listen to your gut.
It is a process.

Tip from Fash:
What really helped me was developing the mentality of:
"Hey, I'm a fun and exiting guy, and by going up to her, I'm giving HER the opportunity to get to know ME! If she turns me down, then it's her loss! There are plenty more women who won't be so stupid to turn me down"

DD David Shade Interview:
Women are sexual beings. You feel more masculine thanks to a woman and a woman feels more feminine thanks to you.
Steps to have sex:
1. She needs to feel that you are in control, she must trust you and she must respect you.
2. She needs to feel that you are emotionally connected.
3. You need to guide every action.
If she rejects you then she is losing the extreme pleasure she could have from you. Period.