Mystery Method

Talk 2 times slower.

Mystery Method:
Focus On The Many - if you screw up, fix it with the next girl.
We constantly struggle to control our emotions: empower yourself to get into a TALKATIVE MOOD. That's the KEY EMOTION. Conveying Personality: you must be in the MOOD to CONVEY.
"Your body and your mind (these are not two separate things as your brain is a part of your body) ."
Your emotions help you. If they are there it means you need something. Lonely? Good. build a plan. "Can you imagine the MOTIVATION you would have to get laid? Your body would make you go out every DAY and try to get some."
"Humans too are not designed to live in a lonesome environment."
The Proximity Alert System. "While you can never be 100% certain, her repeated proximity should indicate a potential interest. She may be putting herself near you on purpose hoping that you might start something."
Alcohol does NOT loosen you up.
Work the room. Never sit and do nothing. Always talk to somebody.
SECRET = BE TALKATIVE - make them listen to whatever YOU have to say. Just go from one story straight into another one like a comedian does.
"get a microcassette player and tape ALL your approaches. Its also good because an approach is very formatted: it has a beginning AND an ending. So does a tape. So when you see the girl, you think "I want HER." You scan the situation and say, "OK, here goes" and you press record. And in you go. When it is over, you press stop. Its so perfect for your brain. "
DO NOT get eye contact and not approach and think you will use that eye contact later to approach her.
When you spot an attractive woman, your emotional state changes. You become AWARE. If you could CONTROL AWARE and LONELY you would become MASTER. For now HIDE it.
Mystery didn't have his first kiss until he was 21. He decided he must master this area of life for lifetime.
You MUST initiate immediately, when you get on a bus and there is a babe, sit near and immediately initiate the chat.
"Each phase may FEEL awkward but it looks normal. When a comedian finishes one topic and just goes into an entirely new unrelated topic, the audience doesn't care as long as the next topic is entertaining."

How to prepare yourself:
"First, find 3 openers and memorize them. Write down a list of openers (just the headings of each opener to remind you). Next, write down some routines (the question game, the music game, the photo routine, the bear in the woods story, etc - all on www.dejanews.com) and then also memorize the kiss close and the # close. Memorize 3 NEGs too and you are good to go. With the material in your mind, you are prepared to work it in the field until you have the timing of the material down (again, just like a comedian.)"