Intention

An excercise for increasing your masculine energy from Ross Jeffries works. I use it various situations and I always regain and maintain high energy.

I had this vibe with a cashier today. I liked her and I didn't freak out. She was nervous, great feeling. Although there are problems that I need to deal with:
1. I have no intention of continuing the talk
2. I think that I'm bothering people
3. I have little motivation for talking to people I don't care about
They are closely related and I need to deal with them.
Number 1 is due to years of bad programming. I tend to escape the conversation. I think of ways to end it instead of ways to extend it. After I end it millions of things come in to my head, brilliant things. They come to my head because I want to talk more, because I regret that I finished talking. I need to think about extending the conversation at real-time, know that I'm going to regret if I finish too early or I don't make an emotional impact. I've dealt with this with friends, so there will be no problem with dealing with it with strangers. I just need to make a conscious intention and never fall into the escape route.
Number 2 is a really bad belief. I can deal with it with the 3 second rule, I'll also try to make a belief-change technique on it so that it never enters my mind.
Number 3 is also a bad belief. I think I don't fully understand the importance of speaking to everybody I meet because I forget how great it is. Try to talk to everybody, challenge yourself to do it. Think that you want to fuck/kiss/touch/make laugh/laugh at this girl instead of "starting conversation".