From shy guy to don juan. Daily experiences.
"The secret of happiness is freedom. And the secret of freedom is courage."

Wednesday, January 10, 2007

Focus all the time

Went out today, to checkout chicks. It was hard to get into the state and
there weren't a lot of target. I used FOCUS all the time. I got into the state
after thinking "there is nothing wrong with look at chicks", hearing it with
David X voice.Also have only 1 goal in mind. If I am going somewhere and I want to do this I
have really 2 goals. The goal of the focus is to have only 1 thing on the mind
all the time. No distractions.

It's better to do anything with focus than do a great thing without focus.

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About seductive skills contrary to social skills by Lifeguard:
1. Live dangerously. Have a hobby or lifestyle that emanates danger. Example: military, law enforcement, moto-cross, pilot, bouncer, fighting sports, etc
2. Have a muscular build that exhibits masculinity (CHECK)
3. Confident, deep voice and relaxed body language
4. Artistic and creative lifestyle: poet, musician, artist, writer, actor, builder/developer (CHECK)
5. Dress/groom yourself seductively through a keen fashion sense, grooming style (CHECK)
6. Social proof in venues that you hang out: restaurants, bars, gym, stores, neighbors
7. Be a non-conformist: opinions on politics, religion, sex, family, career (CHECK)
8. Wealthy lifestyle—demonstrates ambition and success. Don’t confuse this with “buying” women. This lifestyle is for YOU.
9. Project the image of a great lover. Be seductive in how you talk to, move, dance and touch women. (CHECK)
10. Have high standards and qualify women. Make them come to you. Challenge them. Banter with them. Be prepared to walk away. (CHECK)
11. Show a side of vulnerability AFTER you have shown your confident/masculine side.
12. Most importantly: have control over your emotions. Never let the behavior of others dictate your emotions.