"What is your favorite thing about yourself?"
It is my RESPONSIIBLITY to make people happy. Be GRATEFUL and show that to
people.
"I used to think that I needed a good excuse to talk to her. The fact is, that
is just wrong. It is such a confident trait to be able to approach someone and
have no reason to be approaching other than that you just wanted to talk to
her, or you're in the mood to have fun with someone, or she's pretty and you
want to see what she's like."
"If you are having problems thinking of things to say to a girl, or thinking
up reasons to approach, STOP... and take a breath."
"Instead, think of a particular mood or mindset that you are in or want to be
in, and approach the situation with that mood in your vibe. For me it is
usually the same mindset: fun, spontaneous, and interested. That is your
opener and conversation topic, and it will be different every time. The great
thing about it is it will not only arm you with an opener on the spot, but
will also arm you with the perfect vibe and body language."
"Planning your VIBE is much better than simply planning a few words to say or
a sweet question to pop: "Hey I like your style, what should I get for my
little cousin for his birthday?" That opener will be worthless if you say it
like an asshole."
"For example, sometimes I spend the first 30 seconds having fun just giving
the girl a cool different way to handshake, or rating her hug from 1 - 10 and
then explaining why she got that rating, maybe she can teach me a better way
to hug that feels really good. We don't actually TALK about anything, we're
just vibing with one another."
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More:
Thucydides:"The bravest are surely those who have the clearest vision of what is before
them, glory and danger alike, and yet notwithstanding, go out to meet it.
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The almighty POOK:
"ask yourself, “Am I focusing on minimizing the pains of approaching, dating,
and loving or am I focused on obtaining the pleasures of such wonder?”"
"What is a technique with woman but the fundamental denial of self? We are
taught to act this way, do that, then this, and that over there, and perhaps
we get the girl. But what was the cost? (There is ALWAYS a cost). By using
some 'techniques' on the Internet, you never know if *you* can get women. Yes,
techniques sell well because they are 'painless'. If anyone tells you
something in life will be painless, they are, somehow, a salesman.
Nevertheless, techniques are not an addition to your character but often a
denial of it. No, being a Nice Guy does mean crash and burn. Rather than
facing up to the hard questions of life and our own masculinitiy, it is much
simpler and easier to adopt a series of techniques."
"If she ever makes you mad, tell her EXACTLY WHY YOU'RE MAD. Amazingly, girls
LOVE IT when guys will ***** at them because girls want HONESTY and
DIRECTNESS. Many girls will put up a 'test' of standing you up just to see if
you will swallow it like a 'nice guy' or if you will have the STRENGTH to put
them in their place (Women are not attracted to guys they can control)."
This is probably why I lost girl number 1, let's call her HBTalky.
"A Don Juan interacts with everyone. The best way to ward off a threat is to
befriend it. Whatever you do, do not act jealous."
But this contradicts the above in my case :(. Analyzing women is pointless
duh... and Pook is not always right.
This is more true "By ijjjji - mASF
"I have not been nice to you. You must hate me."Preventing her sexual state with negativity. At the same time trying to make
you less attractive hoping you supplicate with "I don't hate you", "its ok" etc etc.
"I don't understand what you see in me."
Same as above.
"I'm so stupid/fat/ugly."Same as above.
"This girl at work.. she is so stupid.. you won't believe what the ***** did
today.. blabla"Trying to make you talk women talk with her. You become her GF and she can easily avoid feeling horny."
"The Don Juan will use stories rather then statements, even parables instead
of declarations."
"Tell me, goodly Pook, what word do you use, in your perspective, for my label
of ‘mistake’?
Freedom."
